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This was JUST what I needed. I’ve been in this same space for awhile and in the beginning I felt pretty bad, but I began to appreciate being in this space. What’s the point of being sad of having this in between moment of figuring things out concerning your future of just wanting more?! In this “liminal space” it has been a challenge to produce content because I simply don’t know.. if that makes sense! Lol! It’s even down to the point where I’m finding out that I’m doing things that I actually don’t want to do far as in my entrepreneurial journey and etc. This space is so new and unfamiliar but it seems to be needed as well. Hopefully I made sense but thank you for this. 💙

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Feb 7, 2023Liked by Aley Arion

This was soooo needed i related to every. single. word. I’m actually fighting the possibility of me having to go back home and i think that’s effecting me but also being secluded in my own apt by myself is running it’s side effects course too so the feeling of being in this liminal space is HEAVY to say the least. THANK YOU THANK YOU! Now i know it’s not just me everybody has a moment like this 🫶🏾

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can you make a Apple Music version of the playlist #SmallTownGirlsUnite

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Wow, it feels refreshing to finally place words to how I’ve been feeling these past few months!!! I’ve been in a similar liminal space, with living back with my parents (who also live in a small town) and before I officially graduate undergrad. It’s a nerve wrecking time, but I’ve also learned to honor myself better. Thank you for sharing this. I’ve felt so alone during these transitions but your message came right on time!

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relatable. love this 🫶🏾

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Just had to leave a quick comment to say WHEW is this relatable! Glad I'm not alone in navigating through liminal space (and glad to have a word to define it now!).

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yess! trust me, I'm glad I'm not alone in this too, having the language for it really does make it more manageable!

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Jan 27, 2023Liked by Aley Arion

This is so timely! Yes, Ive had my cries of deep gratitude of my progress. But there is still so much to do and that can be frustrating to feel for sure. Wanting more for myself at times can be exhausting. when can we just nap LOL I am also in that space of ~moving~ toward things that I've been working for so long on. I am realizing that I need to push myself to make *the most* of this in between time. Whether that be going to different coffee shops to work or going on "adventures" around my city. Essentially, I am trying to ~maximize the moment~. As a "stop to smell the roses" person, I am not used to having to go above and beyond to make joy in the moment. It is not something Ive applied directly to the liminal space but I think it'll be worth it. The duality of trying to make the most of a moment, while simultaneously exhausted by the in-between at the same time?! PHEW.

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girlll, i couldn't relate more to what you said about how exhausting it could be to want more 😭 it's like, if I just settled, life wouldn't be this hard! lol I love how you're maximizing the moment and using this time to the fullest— that's so important. but that balanceee?!? will we ever know it? I sure hope so!! 😭💖

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This post was RIGHT on time! I'm definitely in that liminal space as we speak. Something that brings me peace in these times is a quote one of my best friends told me during a crying session: All that you desire is just waiting for you to arrive. And ever since, I've taken the time to really pour into myself and see myself clear (the good, the bad, and the work in progress). I've celebrated both my wins and losses and meditated on what those lessons are teaching me. As I move forward, I realize that everyday above ground provides me the opportunity to be one step closer to making my goals a reality. Wishing the same for you in your journey and hoping all of this resonates! Thank you for your offering!

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Jan 27, 2023Liked by Aley Arion

Found you through Instagram and really do enjoy reading your post! You seem to always be right on time!! I, too, I am experiencing a liminal space. It’s comforting to be able to put a name to this time and understand where I am better.

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hi Vanessa! aww, i'm so glad to hear you found my page, welcome, welcome 👋🏾☺️ it means a lot to hear that the posts have been timely for you, the alignment is real! haha & like you said, it's very comforting to put a name to this time period — so glad it resonated with you!

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Yep! I’m @elleestbelle_ on instagram if you wanna tie it all together. LOL know it can be amazing to imagine people finding you all over.

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Jan 26, 2023Liked by Aley Arion

Itching to get out of the liminal space… trying to be patient but we tired! Loved the post Aley!

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haha girl, sameeee! I IS TIDE! 😭 but in a way I feel encouraged because I know this is gonna bring about a lot of the change we (as a collective) have been praying for! 😭🙌🏾 so glad you enjoyed the post!

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Jan 26, 2023Liked by Aley Arion

Currently in my “liminal space” and it’s produced some of the hardest moments in my life but I’m super excited for what’s to come because I know just how big and amazing it will be 🫶🏾

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Chelsea, girl, I'm with you on this! it's been a tough time to navigate for sure, but I'm so glad that you're pushing through cause there's definitely better (and more) on the other side! stay encouraged, we got this! 🙌🏾💖

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